Aries Man Sextrology

Sun in Aries man tends to be abrupt, impulsive, and explosive in life, and it’s no different in bed.

Aries likes to be the victor during sex… like he’s conquering the pussy, leading the charge, and making all the sexual decisions, like he’s Vajay-nghis Kahn. Aries is super quick to get aroused and he gets to that nut just as quickly - but he’s both able and eager to get it on again before you have to wait too long.

Aries man is the type to treat every sexual encounter as a conquest, even if it's the 1000th time with the same person.

And Aries man is always in a little bit of a hurry when it comes to sex. Like “take her to poundtown and get down”. Now while that doesn’t give you a bunch to work with when it comes to foreplay and extended stimulation, he will stay in that pussy and do whatever he needs to do to make sure you BOTH end up satisfied. And as soon as he’s done with that… he’s probably ready to go do something else, not cuddle. They don’t have much patience for wooing and cuddling, so you’ll want to initiate the “challenge” on the front-end with something like an erotic handjob “10-minute challenge” edging game.

Aries gets a particular excitement from winning the challenge of both the seduction and the sex itself. If he doesn’t feel like he’s winning something, some of the joy is removed for him.

Sex for an Aries man is about the activity of the sexual experience... not the intimacy and emotions that create these memorable experiences and deepens relationships.

It’s a direct, no-fluff approach to fuckin’. For some women, that’s a refreshing quality. For others, it’s just not gonna work. And it’s for that reason, Aries men change partners a lot… until they can find the ”right one”... The “wifey material” that can fine tune and match up with the Aries man’s sexual energy and style.

If you want soft, slow, sensual, gentle, marathon sex… that’s not you. With Aries men, you’ll get lots of sex often… it just ain’t gonna last forever. Wham! Bam! Thank you, ma’am.

That’s not to say it can’t happen that the Aries man steps out of his sexual norms if a formidable challenge presents itself. Like the right woman, standing fully in her sensual feminine confidence and letting that sensual confidence subtly command thorough satisfaction from him regarding her own desires and needs. He’d actually find that quite delightful and he would gladly comply. Remember… Aries man always wants to feel like he’s winning something worth winning when it comes to sex..

Aries Man Seduction Secrets:

Probably because they're known for changing partners so much, Aries man has a reputation for being the “bad boy” of all the zodiac signs, but that’s really not an accurate generalization. Sure, for lots of Aries men, it’s about hittin’ it and quittin’ it and that’s all they’re about, but really and truly, in his heart, his penis is scattered around the city like that because he’s actively searching… hunting… for the one.

He’s such a masculine man… so “The One” for an Aries man is a woman that’s not afraid to express her feminine traits with unapologetic sensual confidence that’s able to challenge him and satisfy him at the same time. She’s not calling and texting him all day and all night long, being really clingy. She’s comfortably living her own life and she’s not overly available to him at the drop of a dime. He wants to “win” her time and attention, remember? Just make sure you actually do let him know you adore him.

His Turn Ons:

Women of action, who are a little bit assertive and testy, but not in a bratty, aggressive way. He likes spontaneous women and doesn’t like playing the waiting game for too long… there must be some anticipation of a “win” for him. He’s likely to go a few rounds of mental sparring with you, just to entice the challenge. Daring him to try you in some way is the ultimate way to turn him on and create the environment of “the hunt” that Aries man needs and desires.

He loves showing out, especially when the odds aren’t in his favor, so make sure to reward his efforts and best moments whenever you recognize them.

Physically, you’ll want to stroke his jawline gently and play in his beard if he has one. He’ll melt for that. Also, scalp massages, playing with his hair, and his above the shoulder erogenous zones are pleasurable to Aries men. Lick, kiss, and nibble on his ears, too, and use the Tease of the Fingertips on them… he’s super sensitive there.

His Turn Offs:

He’s not, nor will he ever, be interested in being second, in anything. Not even his relationship. He is a man that leads. That means, don’t try and meet him with equal masculine energy and expect him to treat you like a lady. If you’re being too pushy, and available, and aggressive… if you take away his ability to “hunt” and “win” you… he’s gonna lose interest in you fast. If you’re not careful with your words, especially when challenging him, and you put him down or embarrass him… he’s outta there. Even playful roasts and pranks are an absolute turn off for him. Any attack on his pillar of ego will be met with disdain. It’s unforgivable in his eyes.

Something To Try:

Offer up a challenge to him like “X amount of days with no sexual activity, including masturbation, until date night” and then spend those days peppering in sporadic sexy texts, pics, and/or videos and walking in front of him with a t-shirt and no panties to tease him and build up the anticipation. Make sure you play up the challenge and “winning” to keep him engaged, but also let him take the lead when it comes time, even if it’s before date night.

Things To Avoid:

If you want Aries man to see you as The One, you CANNOT throw yourself at him. I mean, yeah, he’ll take the sex, but at that point all you are is an easy occupation to him, not the worthy conquest he’ll feel when he wins “the one”.

Have a full life outside of him so that you’re not always available for emotional and physical whims that make you low-hanging-fruit… and at the same time, make sure you’re activating and stimulating his 6 core pillars that end up serving as the trail of breadcrumbs leading directly to your candy house.

That way, you’re providing the environment for him to choose to follow that trail on his own. That’s him hunting/chasing/pursuing you. See how that’s different than being like “Hey come over cuz you’re gonna get laid.”?