Sagittarius Man Sextrology

The playful Sagittarius man is emotionally elusive and oddly unattached to romantic feelings. Even when he’s with you, you’re never really sure how in it he is. It’s frustrating! Sag man’s greatest fear is getting stuck in the humdrum expectations of a relationship. It’s hard for him to see any romantic relationship as important as his personal freedom and pursuit of his dreams. So needless to say, casual sex is a-okay, even preferred, with this guy, because he really just wants to go with the flow.

And here’s an interesting thing…

Sag man is only reeeally passionate when there’s some sort of “longing” element to the relationship. An unrequited love… Maybe they’re long distance... Or maybe they’re married to someone else. Either way, Sag will absolutely fall head over heels in love with someone he absolutely can’t have… and that “yearning” is the only thing that sparks his real attraction. Anything else just… is.

Don’t be surprised if your Sag man seems a million miles away during sex, even as his meat is all the way up inside your walls. Chances are he’s NOT thinking about someone else and he IS enjoying what’s happening just fine… until he’s like “meh” and ready to do something else. Nothing against you personally, tho. He’s just like that. I mean, don’t get me wrong, he can have some truly intense moments and in the snap of your fingers, it’s just gone *poof* and he’s far, far away again. Oh, to love a Sag man, am I right?

Sagittarius Man Seduction Secrets:

More than anything, Sag man craves an adventurous partner who knows how to roll with the punches and also give a man his space and freedom. She should be interesting, and inquisitive, and have a thirst for life and knowledge and individuality.

This guy needs less mystery and more intrigue from you. You can stoke that yearning, longing emotion that sparks real attraction in him by letting him figure you out slowly. Reveal the fun and interesting things about you should be like rolling out the red carpet to you. That will keep him intrigued and keep his attention.

Sexually, you can capture his attention by exploring and experimenting and even role playing outside of the regular-shmegular sexual norms. If you can keep up with Sag man’s exciting life tempo, he doesn't mind keeping you around in his life forever.

Now, he’s not much of a seducer himself, but he seems to always know the right things to say. So on those rare occasions that he does feel like seducing someone, he’s so gotdamn charming it’s like you’re dealing with a master manipulator with the special power to zone in on exactly what compliment you need to hear at any given moment.

His Turn Ons:

Sag man loooves knowing that you made an effort just for him. Maybe you get extra done up in a particular outfit or hairstyle you know he likes or you research a particular topic you know he’s interested in and get him talking about the subject. He likes that kind of shit.

While you’re deeply engaged in discussion, use your body language and nonverbals to set the sensual stage and lightly brush your fingertips along his thigh to get his engines going. He’ll gladly take it from there.

His Turn Offs:

If you’re someone who takes everything too seriously, you might want to give Sag man a pass. If he has a choice between being around someone that’s constantly complaining and someone who’s positive and joyful, he’ll choose the positive route every time, even if it’s his wife that’s doing the complaining. If he tries to cheer her up, but she just keeps on with the bad mood, he’ll be like “Okay, she’s just miserable.” and then go shoot pool with the fellas. He’s not gonna help you cope with complaining.

What To Try:

Go somewhere and do something different together. Something low-pressure and fun like indoor skydiving for a thrill. Take him to a community block party and just people watch and talk while you enjoy the day together. Let it flow naturally.

What To Avoid:

Nix the jealousy and trying to pin him down or press him to commit will only do you more harm than good. Avoid being clingy and make sure you show that you have a life outside of him.