Gemini Man Sextrology

For a Gemini man, sex is taken with a grain of salt. It’s a fun time and it’s not to be taken too seriously. Gemini men love the art and the act of seduction. They extend the foreplay to maximize the physical anticipation of the pleasure… but snap your fingers and the sex could be over in that instant. Not in the “unsatisfactory” sense, don’t get me wrong… more like in the sexual “ADD” sense. Gemini man is always ready for the next adventure, even before the current one is finished.

For Gemini man, sex is gamified. Fun, like a kid at a carnival. Too serious is NOT fun for him. He doesn’t need love, loyalty, or devotion to have crazy good sex… all he really wants is the thrill of the best ride. Making an emotional appeal won’t cut it… you need to be his best time ever in order to get and keep Gemini man’s attention. Come on too strong with the feels and you’re more than likely gonna turn him off.

Fidelity doesn’t come natural for Gemini men and he’s not waiting for love to feel like he’s having the best sex of his life. He wants it right gotdamn now. Each and every time. Of course, he has the capacity to love… but it’s nowhere near the top of his list of priorities when it comes to what he desires sexually. Seduce his playful side and become his favorite playmate, if you want to capture his attention long term.

For Gemini men, it’s not just about the act of sex. Gemini, especially, finds the delight and glee in sensuality and excitement in seduction. He loves the anticipation of hints, and subtle suggestions, and unlimited possibilities for what’s to come. And even though they like to talk, Gemini men really appreciate picking up on the nonverbals and discreet sensual communication. They LOVE anticipation. Build it. [If you build it, he will come]

Give Gemini man lots of foreplay and prolong it as much as you and he can stand it. The longest part of your session might just be the foreplay, so be prepared for a quickie from the actual deed. Hell… they might not even end it with sex at all… it needs to be the right blend of playfulness and playmateness to deem it a sexual experience for Gemini man. Be too light hearted and your efforts might fail to turn him on enough.

BUT, offer Gemini man up an adventurous quickie in the hallway at the office Christmas party, after joking and teasing each other about it all night… now THAT’s a big turn on for him. So are one night stands, swinging, multiple partners, and group sex. Gemini man says “why not?”. It’s all in the name of play.

Gemini’s frivolous attitude about sex may frustrate most women and they find the “emotional” act unfulfilliing. BUT-- Gemini is a master seducer and not many women can say that they were left unsatisfied with the experience. The ones that are butthurt over a Gemini man are the ones who were hoping and expecting the sex to lead to a lifelong commitment of love and desire out of one. They didn’t create the environment for that and Gemini ain’t finna just offer it up.

There are way too many temptations in this world for Gemini man to be in a hurry to settle for just one. It's got to be special. She’s got to be one that can change the game up in a moment's notice and keep things interesting. Just because you’re one playmate doesn’t mean you have to be boring and monotonous. Gemini man needs a playmate just as willing to ride the edge with him, or at the very least, not stifle his desire to be there. Gemini men like to have fun and that extends well beyond the bedroom. If you try to dead that playfulness with serious shit… you’ve lost, in that very moment, one way or another. Your time with you Gemini will be limited.

Gemini Man Seduction Secrets:

Gemini man is looking for the ultimate thrilling adventure seeker, just like he is. He wants someone who’s able to roll with the punches and just go with the flow, no matter what comes up. Give him this, and I can guarantee you will never be bored with whatever happens. If you want predictable, find you a Virgo or Capricorn… Free-spirited Gemini is NOT for you.

But if you loooove to flirt and be flirted with… this is your guy. But be careful if you’re not genuine… He’s a notoriously HUGE flirt and if you’re not keen on seeing him flirt with other women while you’re out at the club… steer clear. You’re not ready for Gemini and your feelings will be hurt.. He has the power to make you believe you’re the apple of his eye and the only woman he can see himself with one moment and the next… have ghosted you without a trace, leaving you dazed and confused.

But he’s not selfish sexually! Not in the least! All of his joy in the bedroom comes from making your toes curl and making you scream out in glorious ecstasy. Let him revel in all that you are and celebrate you...cuz he is! But please don’t make the mistake of thinking this translates to outside of the bedroom!

If you want to keep his attention, keep it focused in the bedroom and let everything else fall into place with mental stimulation. (think about those pillars and the elements of engagement.)

His Turn Ons:

If you want Gemini man to keep comin’ back… you’re gonna have to keep giving him more of what he wants. Period. That means the fun, relaxed, adventurous stuff. Not the overly-emotional explosions of feelings and mental breakdowns. If you can’t GENUINELY deal with a Gemini’s nature, don't try, You’re only hurting yourself and you can only do it but for so long before you explode, and not in the good way..

But, if you can, do a lot of active listening and be clever with your words and wit. Let him do most of the talking and let most of your contributions be more non verbal tokens of affection, like tracing your fingers along his erogenous zones and seductive glances. He wants you to want him. You can do all of this easily, if you’re activating his pillars correctly. Lightly trace your fingers over his palms, sensually kissing and sucking his fingers, and rubbing his hands all over your body are huge turn ons for him.

His Turn Offs:

Gemini man hates the same ol’, same ol’. If you’re about predictability, you’re not for Gemini. He craves newness. He craves “different”. He craves drop-of-the-dime spontaneity. The same old tired things are just going to send him flying onto the next.

What To Try:

Blindfolds, teasing sensation play, and light BDSM (or not so light, if you find he prefers that). Something that will really get him revved up is to be meek, demure, and mild in public then unleashing the filthy, nasty, dirty on him when no one is listening.

What To Avoid:

Don’t be pushy. Be inviting. If he seems quieter than usual, loosen up the environment and relax. Don’t continuously ask “What’s wrong?”. Avoid being too over-the-top or “on”. Either ask him genuine questions to get him talking about himself in a positive light… or stfu and just be there. That’s it.