He Grew Cold & Angry Over Nothing! What Went Wrong?

Ladies… Are You an Inadvertent Dick Deflirter? It’s a real thing -- Dick deflirtation is the thing that’s actually happening lots of times when you think you’re innocently flirting with a guy you like but he’s not really giving you the response you want. 9 times out of 10, whatever it is you’re doing is turning him off faster than a cold shower cuz you haven’t set the stage right.

In a moment, I’ll read a letter from a woman who managed to suck the entire life out the dick that’s attached to a dude she’s wanting to date, without even giving him the benefit of wrapping some warm, wet lips around it... all because she read the room about as clearly as Helen Keller standing blindfolded in a dark room filled with fog in the middle of the fucking night … when it came to seeing his viewpoint, of course;

But, when it came to trying to turn that one texting convo into a date with the dude out of nowhere, she charged full steam ahead with the grace of a viking shieldmaiden trying to get into Valhalla by choppin’ heads off with a fucking soup spoon. Sure it can happen, possibly, I guess… but you can obviously see how it’s all wrong.

Now… It started off good (sort of) by her words, just like 99% of women out there thinks every time they toss a little flitty flirt a guy’s way and he responds so it must have some huge ass meaning… when in reality, while genuine curiosity allowed the conversation to continue for a bit cuz at th end of the day, his dick is thinking he’s about to get some attention and what guy doesn’t want that... But even her initial sexy text was met with suspicion in his core because it was out of place. No lead into it at all, so he didn’t believe it. Remember that pillar of ego ain’t no joke and she ain’t feeling safe to him like that yet, so he’ll test the waters… but he ain’t letting his guard down.

You’ll see how she tries to do a damn deep end dick dive straight to the final pillars of appreciation and respect and ended up belly flopping on entry because, while she was using some really good texting tips she got from a FB group, she was doing it in a really bad way. Ya didn’t activate the other pillars first, gal… you’re setting yourself up to leap from the high dive into a dry pool when you do that. Go back to episode 101 if you have no idea of what I’m talking about.

And now… the letter (it’s long af, so just press play and you can listen to how I break it down and address things along the way):