Relationship Crossroads? Three Signs It's Time to Let It Go

If you find yourself questioning the state of your relationship a lot lately, it’s paramount for your own sanity that you avoid falling into depression or let overthinking take over and destroy your peace. The fact is, most relationships you’ll encounter have a shelf-life. Not every one of them is supposed to last forever. They’re meant to come and go as you grow and evolve in life.

If it's a fucked up situation, you might be happy as hell to invite that person to kick rocks and gtfo of your life... The problem is, too often, we hold onto them long after they’ve reached their expiration date.

That being said, it’s important for you to be able to recognize when your relationship has spoiled like month-old milk and outlived its usefulness in your life.

Here’s a few signs that can indicate that it might be time to just let that shit go:

1. It’s Always SO Fucking Frustrating: Has your relationship gotten to the point where literally EVERYTHING they do frustrates you? Things just always seem to go wrong whenever you talk (or don’t talk). The right feelings never seem to show up at the right times. Shit just feels… off. You start beating yourself across the head and probably acting a lil crazy trying to get answers and figure out what’s causing it, when in reality, your relationship probably just ran its course.

If you’re patiently waiting (or not so patiently waiting) for the person in your life to see eye to eye with you on basic relationship principles, it’s a sure sign that you just aren’t in alignment when it comes to being together. There are so many internal and external factors that carry weight on how someone acts in a relationship and y’all just might not be on the same page. Period.

If the relationship is truly what you see in your Happy End Result, you work on the alignment and, ideally, you’ll grow together in the way that makes you both happiest. If not, stop trying to force it and let the relationship dissolve naturally.

2. You don’t trust them to NOT hurt you: BOI, nothing is worse than putting your trust and faith and confidence into someone, only to find they won’t hold up their end of the bargain. How many times in a week do you feel let down because of your partners actions or inaction?

Ask yourself honestly… Do you forego your real needs in a relationship simply because you already know your person has a pattern of letting you down in some way? Every time you feel hurt or let down by your partner, you have two choices. You’re gonna either relive the heartbreak daily... or you might just realize it’s time to move the fuck on and separate from them.

Now, let’s be honest, this shit goes both ways. Y’all probably have a mutual mistrust for each other for the simple fact that you never discussed and mutually agreed on what your relationship is and where it’s heading. The most important factor for anyone in a relationship is peace of mind. If you’re waking up day in and day out with the baseline energy of, “I can’t trust this person 100%”, it’s time to GO.

3. Your paths have changed: Have you ever met someone when you were at a certain stage in your life and everything about them feels like it was meant to be? Then one day, it all changes. Maybe one of you did something that caused the other to see you in a different light or maybe it’s just their true colors shining through and you’re only now seeing it.

Just because your paths are changing doesn’t necessarily mean that a break up has to happen, but if you have opposing views on what should be happening in your relationship, it’s gonna be pretty miserable trying to stay together and force it.

It’s totally okay to recognize that a relationship isn’t working for you anymore. Change is inevitable and neither one of you owes anyone an explanation beyond that.

You can’t be confident in your relationship until you’re first confident in yourself being able to 1.) choose and 2.) express what you truly desire in a mate and a relationship. You can’t be afraid to try and you also can’t be afraid to walk away if it doesn’t feel right. Sometimes a person is meant to enter your life for a season to help you discover your true self. And your true self is a naturally undeniably sensual being!

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