8 Tips For A Valentine's Date He Won't Soon Forget (And Neither Will You!)

Every year, you want your man to do something special for Valentine’s Day and every year it always kinda turns out the same, doesn’t it?

Well this year, with all the pandemic, covid icky shit out there, instead of sitting through another overpriced, commercialized version of a Valentine’s “date” in a restaurant full of strangers... Why don’t you do something extra special just for you and your man that turns up the heat on what’s supposed to be the sexiest holiday of the year. Make it one you’ll both really remember.

If you want this Valentine’s Day to be the hottest, sexiest date you and your man have ever had, just pick a few of these saucy, seductive ideas from the following list and watch how quickly you awaken the primal sexual beast in your man just waiting to eat you up like his prey.

Give him a new reason to LOVE Valentine’s Day!

1- Make Picking Your Lingerie / Outfit Exciting. The beauty of Valentine’s Day is that you can actually plan to go all out for your sexual experience and you can use that to your advantage to start building up the anticipation before V-Day.

Obviously, if you’re gonna have a highly sensual date night, you’re gonna want to wear something that makes you feel sexy in your skin and also turns him on at the same time. Don’t ask him to go lingerie shopping with you if it’s not something he usually does. That sours the experience if you try to make him. Instead, try this little tip to get him involved and trigger his anticipation.

Do your own lingerie browsing (online or in person). Make sure you choose a broad range of several different looks, styles, and types of lingerie/sexy outfits and get pictures, from the skimpiest things you’ll wear to something you feel totally comfortable in to everything in between. In fact, since most women have insecurities about their bodies, you should probably choose something two shades skimpier than what you think you can get away with and watch that be the one he’d LOVE to see you in. Don’t be scared to go a little wild.

After you gather up pics of all the looks (I suggest 8 or so), send them to him in ONE message that says something like “I need your help for my secret mission😉. Pick your favorite three and let me know ASAP.”

THEN WAIT FOR HIM TO RESPOND.

Don’t hound him or get all insecure and overthinker-y if he doesn’t respond right away. If he read your message, his mind is moving in the right direction. Don’t panic. Be patient. You’re gonna display nothing but confidence in everything you do while planning this date. Go here to find out what you can do if he doesn’t respond.

2- "Crown The King". So your man is probably aware that he’s most likely gonna get some pussy that night and maybe even expecting some head for the special occasion (cuz apparently some women need a holiday to suck a dick 🤷).

One thing he’s probably not expecting for you to do is “crown the king” like a velvet-palmed, stroking goddess with this often overlooked sexual gem,

It’s my opinion that an erotic, sensual handjob is one of the most seductive experiences a woman can involve herself in sexually. Both vulnerable and dominant at the same time, just by having his dick in her hand. Stroking for his pleasure, but loving that you have the power in your hands to take him to the edge of climax and back. An erotic handjob session is one of the most sensual ways to connect with your man on the most romantic night of the year.

Once you have a solid toolbox of erotic handjob techniques under your belt and you give him the full experience on your Valentine’s date, you’re putting yourself in the “fantasy dream girl” realm for him and he’ll remember that for a long time.

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3- Plan To Play With Sex Positions. You want your sex this Valentine’s Day to outshine every other Valentine’s Day sex your man has ever had before. If you want to help your man keep the sex going long into the night, switching positions is the way to go (unless you’re playing edging games). I’m gonna give you a couple of fun (blatantly forward) ideas for how to “plan” your sex positions with your man, and maybe even learn a little more about what excites the other. Use this occasion to step out of your relationship comfort zone and make sure he knows just how nasty you wanna get with him.

(The Rated R Version) For the week leading into V-Day, you and your man are each collecting sex position memes or illustrations depicting things you want to do to each other like

And then when date night comes, you snuggle up and look over your pics together and choose the ones you’re gonna make happen that night.

OR (The X-rated Version), if you really wanna make a bold statement, use porn gifs instead of memes. If you already do things like share porn with your man, PERFECT… now you can step it up a notch. If you’re not a porn person at all, don’t worry. Just friggin' do it...

Like I said, you can learn a lot about your partner with porn. Doing this with a guy I used to date, we discovered that while I prefer Ebony Amateur Couples porn (shout out to @XLKyng, btw), he’s partial to parody porn and his favorite one is The Jeffersons Parody. I NEVER would have guessed that had we not been exchanging porn as a regular part of adding sexual tension and anticipation to our relationship. I got a ton of role play ideas from that.

4- Let Me Lick It: Dessert Play. This Valentine’s Day experience is about prioritizing passion and pleasure with your man over the traditional stuff so instead of wasting time in an overcrowded restaurant, wouldn’t it be better to start your night eating dessert off each other? You can always order in or plan to cook together later.

A few quick tips about dessert play:

… Never penetrate or insert sweets into the vagina because she could end up with a beasty yeasty from the sugar (protect your yoni, ladies). Focus on other body parts and erogenous zones and lick to your heart’s content.

… Also, if you’re going to dabble in dessert play you’re gonna want to protect your bed, sheets, mattress, couch, etc. from the mess with more than just a towel. I recommend looking into getting a sex blanket like this one to prevent things like chocolate sauce and champagne from soaking into the mattress. The good thing about this waterproof sex blanket is that you can finally stop laying down towels that end up not working anyway, if you’re a squirter. The sex blanket catches all the wet wet.

To prolong the experience with Dessert Play, take turns licking whipped cream or chocolate sauce or eating fruit off each others’ torso, nipples, legs, hips, thighs, back, butt, neck, and other erogenous zones but NOT the genitals.

No stroking or licking or sucking the dick. No penetrating, no eating, no kissing the pussy. Save all that for later… Take your time and enjoy. Go long and sloooowwwww.

Once you’ve both gotten full from eating off your partner's body parts, you can keep the intensity up by taking a shower together to clean off before you get dirty again. I’d recommend not having any sex in the shower… maybe some light touching while helping each other wash off but save it from what’s coming next.

5- Give Him a Man-Melting Massage. After your shower is the perfect time to give him a full body massage that will have him melting in your hands. It’ll only take you about 10 minutes or so of massaging to warm him up and be primed for the erotic handjob you’re going to surprise him with tonight.

This isn’t the type of shoulder and neck rub you give someone when they had a stressful day. This is the type of full body experience that awakens nerve endings in places that are usually ignored. This combination of massage magic sends tingles to places even he forgot about.

Make sure the room is warm and the ambience is set with low lighting, scented candles or aroma oils. Make sure you have plenty of massage oil or coconut oil warmed and ready to go. Have any toys and sensory accessories like fur or feathers within reach.

You can get the full rundown of how to perform a man-melting massage here but the gist of it is this…

Start with him laying on his belly while you slowly work his back, shoulder, neck, scalp, arms, lower back, legs. Then have him flip over onto his back and you work his chest, arms, torso, hips, thighs, legs, and ankles... all using different strokes, hand positions, pressure, and techniques designed to get him to the peak of the sensations he feels.

This is the perfect segue to give the erotic man-melting massage the happy ending it deserves by smoothly transitioning into the erotic handjob you’ve been waiting to lay on him.

6- Play Out a Porn(ish) Fantasy & Watch Yourself. Turn on the camera or get in front of a full-size mirror then enjoy the eroticism this kind of visual experience brings. There’s nothing like unleashing your inner porn star to make his night complete. Now, I’m not saying you have to hit ‘record’, if that’s not something you’re comfortable with. But there’s something about seeing yourself in the act of fucking that makes you both wanna put in a lil extra oomph.

Bust out some of that lingerie or a sexy outfit and let him push it to the side or rip it or whatever things he wants to do as he unleashes that primal beast inside you while you both watch. This part ain’t for makin’ love… it’s for straight filthy, disgusting, f-u-c-k-i-n-g.

*Tip* To minimize the chance that you’ll be self conscious about your trouble spots instead of focusing on the fun, choose lingerie that boosts your confidence to just let loose. For instance, if you don’t want to see your belly on camera, a good steel-boned underbust corset paired with some suspender / garter-style fishnet stockings is a super sexy look that holds it all in while still letting your titties bounce and open access to all your wetness.

7- Mutual Masturbation / Edging Games With Couples Toys. Certain toys are designed specifically to be used by couples during sex, like vibrating cock rings or a We-Vibe. But for a steaming hot mutual masturbation session like you’ve never had before, you have to look no further than Max and Nora from Lovense.

What’s special about how this particular pair of toys works together is how they sync up with each others’ movements so that his masturbator (Max) squeezes and pulses to the same speed and tempo as her pulsing, rotating vibrator (Nora) is moving in and out of her, even from the other side of the country.

I wonder who would win in a contest to see who could hold out the longest before exploding if you were edging each other at the same time using these toys.

8- Spend All Day Teasing Each Other. Anticipation is an essential ingredient to planning a successful, sexual Valentine’s date. Spend the earlier parts of the day teasing each other with what’s to come. While he’s getting ready for work in the morning, leave a pair of thongs on his steering wheel and a note teasing him. You could even have him perform a task with them like send you a pic holding your thong and his dick from the bathroom at work. There’s no limit when it comes to teasing.

If you do happen to have to be in public before settling in for sexy time, that doesn’t mean the teasing has to stop. In fact, you can turn it up a few notches by using this super-silent, insertable vibrator that can be controlled by an app on your man’s phone in secrecy. Just the simple act of trying to hold your composure in public as you succumb to an orgasm under the table at dinner with just a few slides of his thumb across his screen with no one the wiser. It’s exciting as fuck!

If you need some more delectable teasing ideas and sexy text scripts to make sure you don’t run out of ideas, all you have to do is check us out in the Sensual Intelligence Agency to get access to all that.

Putting It All Together.

It’s important to remember that there are no hard and fast rules for what to do and how to be on this holiday for lovers. Step outside of any “that’s just not me” insecurities and start a new tradition that really celebrates you and your man fully.